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Mexico Week, Missive #2: The Queer Housing Trap
Why queer expats get ghosted, overcharged, and evicted — and how to avoid it.
Hey, PrideNomad!
Welcome back to Mexico Week 🌮 — our first-ever deep dive series.
Today’s morsel: housing.
Because the dream of Mexico often crashes against one brutal wall — finding a place to live that actually feels safe.
Here’s the reality: 79% of LGBTQ+ people report discrimination when renting in Mexico. For trans folks, it’s nearly double that.
For queer expats, the risks stack even higher: no local references, no credit history, no guarantor.
The result?
You get ghosted the moment you mention your partner.
You’re quoted one rent price, only to watch it jump when the landlord “finds out.”
Or you finally sign — and find yourself evicted with no recourse.
So how do you protect yourself?
Here are some quick tips from our research:
🚩 Red Flag Phrase: “Traditional family environment.”
It sounds warm and welcoming. In practice, it’s often code for “we’re not queer-friendly.” If you see it in a listing, tread carefully.
✅ Safer Alternatives:
Covive (CDMX): No guarantor required, explicitly inclusive, built for expats.
MisterB&B: Slightly pricier, but every host is LGBTQ+ or vetted ally — psychological safety baked in.
Co404 (Mérida): Budget-friendly, community-focused, and well-reviewed by queer nomads .
These aren’t perfect solutions — but they’re the lifelines many queer expats use to dodge scams, homophobia, and heartbreak.
And that’s why we built the Mexico Soft Landing Plan. It’s not just cost-of-living stats — it’s an on-the-ground playbook for queer safety: trusted housing platforms, red flag scripts, and city-by-city recommendations you won’t find on Google.
👉 Until Sept 16, it’s $97. After that, the price doubles to $197 — and you’ll miss the bonuses:
Instant download of my book No Closets. No Borders.
A live AMA with Mexico expert Shasta Townsend.
💡 The Secret Map Bonus: Share Mexico Week with just 2 friends using your personal link below, and you’ll unlock PrideNomad’s Secret Map: 5 Hidden Queer Gems of Mexico.
Tomorrow’s Missive: The $750 Myth — why Mexico is cheap only if you know where locals hide their secrets.
See you then,
Ken
P.S. Early reviewers of the Mexico Soft Landing Plan didn’t mince words: “This is the most thorough, comprehensive, and useful report we’ve ever seen.” When you’re navigating housing traps, that kind of detail isn’t optional — it’s survival.